The van for our tour group rolled into the West Bank: my first time seeing the “other” side of the wall. I can imagine now what it was like in Berlin some time ago, how a bit of cement and wire can be a barrier in the mind as much as it is one between … More »
Category Archives: Certainty, Hatred, and Polarization
Avi Schaefer’s Method
With the AIPAC and JStreet conferences just behind us, the topic of “American students’ engagement with Israel” is the most frequent subject between those of us working in organizations that do Israel campus engagement. The David Project recently released its “White Paper,” a call to action for strengthening American youth’s Jewish identity and connection to … More »
Eliminating our Biases…Embracing Our Diversity
A colleague of mine once related to me that she was leading a program at the local community center. Prior to the program’s start, she went to the lobby to wait for a pizza delivery. For roughly fifteen minutes she was looking for a short male of Hispanic descent, wearing loose jeans. Finally, a tall, … More »
What do I know?
Editor of Sh’ma, Susan Berrin, introduces this month’s theme with “What happens when we treat our positions — our versions of reality — as ‘truth.’” What I believe I know and don’t know and how does that inform my Jewish identity? Yeah, it gets deep. I thought I’d make a list of what I think … More »
Aiming for Confidence, not Certainty, in the Classroom
I was taught to live a life of balance – to be confident, but not cocky. Reflective, but not inactive. My parents and professors have tried to help to believe that I was talented and good at what I do, but also that there is always more to learn and ways to improve. That it … More »
Our Rabbinic Intermarriage
There was a time, early in our relationship, when my husband and I made jokes about our peculiar form of intermarriage: he preferred diet Pepsi and I, diet Coke. We laughed about the 24-pack of cans of each variety in our pantry, acknowledging that we’d save money if we could just agree on one soda … More »
Faith is Certain
I know that the sun will rise tomorrow. With all of the scientific facts and astronomical data we are blessed with today, I can expect to wake up tomorrow and see rays of light emitting through my window. There is also no debating time. Our clocks, both digital and internal, will continue to function in … More »
Elu v’Elu
I heard, a number of years ago, a wonderful drashah by my friend and teacher Rabbi Aryeh Cohen, on the famous sugiya from Eruvin 13b concerning Hillel and Shammai. The Gemara relates that the schools of Hillel and Shammai were deeply divided concerning certain matters of halachah (Rashi clarifies that the quarrel was intensifying to … More »
Hillel, Shammai, Certainty, and Hatred
When in grade school, I first learned of the famous debate between the ancient rabbinic sages about Hanukkah: The House of Shammai ruled that we should light eight candles on the first night, seven on the second, and continue descending until the last night had one lonely candle remaining, while the House of Hillel ruled … More »